tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8514426064724374360.post4877761665356179198..comments2024-01-07T02:04:31.995-05:00Comments on Just a Girl: Does Sex Matter?Just a Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15104368904832343297noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8514426064724374360.post-74075220724100804012009-09-23T22:37:38.197-04:002009-09-23T22:37:38.197-04:00I am not that shocked about people not wanting to ...I am not that shocked about people not wanting to explore that part of their lives with each other but I do think it is extremely sad. My husband and I have been married for 28 years (in December) and we both deeply desire each other more now than ever, including when we first got together. We would fuck several times a day if we could, but of course work and other responsibilities come into play and therefore curtail the constant screwing. LOL. But our secret, which to me is just common sense, is to not take the other person for granted, do not let ANYTHING come between you (work, kids, in-laws, bills, ect...)everything comes and goes, but you will still be faced with that partner so it the TOP PRIORITY. We keep throwing a little spice into the mix from time to time, trying something new or a new place. We openly communicate to each other. We are honest with each other. I cannot imagine my life without sex, and I cannot imagine sharing my bed or life with someone that I did not love, care for and want to fuck all the time. Just my opinion for whatever it is worth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8514426064724374360.post-52554228075265203442009-09-10T22:13:48.380-04:002009-09-10T22:13:48.380-04:00yes sex does matter but it can't be one sided....yes sex does matter but it can't be one sided. If it seems like one or the other can't seem to get enjoyment out of it then there are other things wrong with the relationship.. Yes I have sex with my wife, hey I need to get off sometimes too but it is not how I want it. As long as she gets off she doesn't care if I do unless she wants to feel me in her. At that point it is just a fuckScotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02754340808802264940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8514426064724374360.post-89617900547580912322009-08-25T20:45:23.117-04:002009-08-25T20:45:23.117-04:00So you believe sex matters, but I don't think ...So you believe sex matters, but I don't think you even scratched the surface to why it does :)<br /><br />Is it because it's so freakin delicious!? Or is it because it can be about pure lust sometimes that one just feel they are in touch with the animal inside? Or is it just a way of communicating love and affection without saying a word?<br /><br />Would I like you to answer my questions? Hmmm...I'd rather stroke while reading some of your stories, but hey, don't let that stop you from answering :)<br /><br />Cheers,Thttp://rex.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8514426064724374360.post-10093485205149359352009-08-22T18:53:25.971-04:002009-08-22T18:53:25.971-04:00Wow - you open a can of worms with this post which...Wow - you open a can of worms with this post which I look forward to commenting on a bit when I find a few more moments than I have at present. You're right, there are times in a long term relationship when things are not going to be great. I too know lot's of men who have gone through periods of hatred for their partners and vice versa and often sex has dropped away completely during that time. I also know of quite a few relationships where sex seems to have just dropped off the map - there just was no interest either on on side or both. Sex has always been an important part of my own partnership even though it hasn't always been good but when it hasn't been it's been a useful touchstone for things going wrong in our relationship overall and we've been able to use those sexual difficulties through couselling and talking to reconnect and move things forward considerably.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com